Do you have any other blogs? I'd love to follow them!
Anonymous

nope i just have the one tumblr blog! i find that running numerous on the same site would be too much. i have other social media accounts though that you can find in my about me. 

remember that time i came out on tumblr and i was told i was just a cishet girl trying to feel like a special snowflake

and that i wasn’t queer enough to consider myself part of the lgbtqia+ community

and i didn’t receive enough discrimination to be a part of the lgbtqia+ community

and that because i dated someone who is trans* and (at the time) identified as male but i didn’t identify as heterosexual i was told that was transphobic because it was implying i didn’t see them as a real man

and there i was just trying to tell people that i like girls

because i remember

tbh the tumblr queer community is the only queer community with this much blatant hate and discrimination WITHIN it’s own community. like between truscum and yelling at people for not understanding something right away and saying anyone who doesnt identify as something simple (or is just coming out) as ‘attention seeking’ the tumblr queer community is fucking horrible

What are truscum? Sorry, if I sound stupid, just curious.
Anonymous

barlightsprettygirls:

No don’t worry you don’t sound stupid! It’s still quite a new term to me too.

FROM WHAT I UNDERSTAND:

truscum is short for “true scum” and they’re basically trans people who think they only kind of trans you can be is ftm or mtf with full hormone and upper and lower body surgery. they think that if you’re ftm or mtf and don’t want surgery you shouldn’t identify as trans, you should identify as something else.

they essentially think that the * should be taken away from trans* and that the umbrella should be secluded to the “true” trans people - full binary transition, ftm and mtf people. they wish to exclude nonbinary, genderfluid, and all other trans* people from calling themselves “trans*” and only have “”“TRUE”“” trans people call themselves trans.

they’re basically telling people who don’t fit into a cookie cutout that they’re not allowed to identify as trans* and i think it’s really sick. 

from what I know, they also say that you have to experience dysphoria to be trans* even though there are trans* people are do not experience dysphoria

this is true too

What are truscum? Sorry, if I sound stupid, just curious.
Anonymous

No don’t worry you don’t sound stupid! It’s still quite a new term to me too.

FROM WHAT I UNDERSTAND:

truscum is short for “true scum” and they’re basically trans people who think they only kind of trans you can be is ftm or mtf with full hormone and upper and lower body surgery. they think that if you’re ftm or mtf and don’t want surgery you shouldn’t identify as trans, you should identify as something else.

they essentially think that the * should be taken away from trans* and that the umbrella should be secluded to the “true” trans people - full binary transition, ftm and mtf people. they wish to exclude nonbinary, genderfluid, and all other trans* people from calling themselves “trans*” and only have “”“TRUE”“” trans people call themselves trans.

they’re basically telling people who don’t fit into a cookie cutout that they’re not allowed to identify as trans* and i think it’s really sick. 

also i find the only people who consider trans* with the * as offensive are truscum and they are the LAST people im going to cater to

sometimes i still think about that anon i got talking about my about me like

:T

i would never use female-bodied on another person. i prefer the term female body for myself and only myself. “dfab” and “dmab” are more politically correct terms and that’s what i would use for other people.

but holy SHIT calling me a jackass for disagreeing with you? it makes me want to not change what i’m doing out of fucking spite.

i did end up changing it though, because someone who’s opinion i respect and who treated me with respect and wasn’t an asshole talked to me and gave me good reasons for wanting to change.

Hey hottie authorized adult figure let me whisper in ur ear
Anonymous

im

» You have permission to flirt with me anonymously. Starting now.

whendoesyourjourneyend:

Try me, I’m not easily swayed

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i tried that coming out simulator and it is way way waaay too intense i had to stop so i dont start crying